Im sure i will be seen as a male basher but fuck it.. the shit rings true to me..
Men are 99.9% full of shit.. The best thing u could ever do is keep ur guard up.. Fuck what any of them tell u.. They are competitive beings.. All they wanna do is be THAT ONE to break ur wall down.. they love it, its like a rush. Think abt it, why do men love sports, play video games for hours? To be competitve, to BEAT the things that challenge them.. If it was easy they wouldn't even play the game.. That's how u gotta look at it. Do whats in the best interest of YOU!! If hes not like that then it will show in time and patience.